So I will be the first to admit that pregnancy is weird. A lot of people and a lot of blogs are all about how natural it is and pregnancy is very natural. But it is also very weird. Which isn’t a bad thing. There are a lot of things in the world that are natural but weird. Like platypuses. Or boogers. Feeling a living being SQUIRM inside you is really, really cool but also strange. Growing that human and a whole other organ to support that baby is kind of mind blowing weird because for the most part, humans don’t go around growing new organs. (Or maybe they do. I’m not a doctor.)
However, I do also think that as weird as pregnancy can be, it’s important to know WHEN to express your thoughts on your weirdness. Or WHO should express their thoughts on its weirdness. People say a lot of strange things to you when you’re pregnant. Whether it’s the people who decide to pull a Motomoto from Madagascar and let the “Dang girl, you huge!” slip or the people who comment on your age, status, or insert number of other children here pregnancy just brings out people’s opinions.
I wasn’t super surprised when my dentist commented on my pregnancy. I had to tell him I was pregnant so he wouldn’t ask for x-rays. He started the conversation easily, commented on how small I looked. (I was reclining in the chair so it’s easy to look smaller then) and then he commented on how I was from Chicago. Which sparked the hygenist to comment on how big cities scared her, because she thought people from big cities were mean. I smiled and laughed and was like, “No they are just different hehehe can we get on with this please?” My cleaning had already taken waaaaaay longer than I remember a cleaning ever taking. (It took 45 minutes. I have gone to the dentist every year since having teeth. My husband had a cleaning later and he hasn’t been to the dentist in 5 years. His took 20 minutes.) But the conversation continued.
“Pregnancy, man, I’m happy for you. But it just weird me out. Having something inside of you. It reminds me of that movie, Alien. You know. Something bursting out of you. Hehe alright, now, open wide.”
The thing is, a lot of pregnant women will tell you that sometimes the baby feels alien like. It totally does. But when you’re super hungry, annoyed, and just waiting for someone to give you the all clear sign on your teeth having your offspring compared to a Sci-Fi antagonist is a little off putting. Especially since someone just said that people from big cities are mean.
I mean, yeah, Chicagoans drive aggressively, tend to be blunt, and drive faster than people here because OH MY GOSH WHY IS IT SO HARD TO TURN AT A REASONABLE SPEED? DO WE NEED TO TAKE A TURN AT 5 MILES PER HOUR PEOPLE? REALLY?
But I’m fairly certain my dentist back home would have given me a congrats and said my teeth looked good and that he would see me in 6 months. Like he did for the past 25 years. Cause he was cool like that. And he wouldn’t compare my child to the chest buster.
But to be fair to this dentist, he did say that I had nice teeth. So, there’s that.
🙂